Indeed, it was a natural desire to Rita. If you think its mismatched, but not also to the little guy, right? Well, that would not happen again to the "rebellion" of the child, at the same time in order to pique the parents is reduced, the tips below may help.
1. Allow Children Choosing
Offer him a choice between two or three options that we consider children wear mismatched. If he chose another outfit that is not our choice, try to compromise. If the child continues to ask for the clothes she wanted, obeyed. Don't we force him to obey our tastes.
When buying clothes, let your child choose what he likes. Although it does not guarantee one day he would be happy to wear the clothes of their own choice, at least it allows us to persuade that he wants to wear his clothes. Let your child wardrobe filled with choices. Because for children under five, it was actually fun.
Praise your child when he gets his choice. But do not criticize if we think, he did not choose a pair fitting shirt and pants. Give advice if he felt confused. For example, "blue striped shirt was fitting that used the same blue shorts." Your child will learn the aesthetics of dress while developing his own style.
3. No Need Shame
No need to be afraid or ashamed if your child likes to wear clothes according to our "tacky". No need to fear ridicule he gets his friend, or our neighbor quipped. Peculiarities of dress usually reduced gradually, with increasing age child.
4. Be Gentle
Before starting the process of dressing. Stir up our maternal instinct that first feeling of being soft. Keep the mood not being upset or angry. If during this dressing really makes us tired, will help calm her motherly feelings.
5. Encourage Conversation
While we wear to our children. Divert attention by chatting about what he was doing. Could we also promised to play with him later afternoon, or tell about the rain outside the window.
Before starting the process of dressing. Stir up our maternal instinct that first feeling of being soft. Keep the mood not being upset or angry. If during this dressing really makes us tired, will help calm her motherly feelings.
5. Encourage Conversation
While we wear to our children. Divert attention by chatting about what he was doing. Could we also promised to play with him later afternoon, or tell about the rain outside the window.
6 . Make GamesSo that your child does not rebel , make a game while wearing clothes . For example , " Helooo , " when we put his head through the neck collar , or "Where is the hand ? " while inserting his hands into his sleeves . The game " hide and seek " can divert the child 's attention , and make it happy .
7 . See The ExpressionToddlers often do not have adequate language to express his displeasure . They have not been able to state whether love with the clothing worn or not . They can only express it with expressions or body language . They would cry easily when worn sweaters itch , or worn jeans feel stiff . If your child has sensitive feelings wore clothes , give him the clothes of a soft material , comfortable , and fairly loose .
8. Invite The Teddy
Your child would prefer it if when changing clothes, he may also wear it to others. For example, wearing a shirt for Teddy bear. If you want to use this way, of course, we also have to have the clothes for Teddy, which is easy for the child to put it.
Your child would prefer it if when changing clothes, he may also wear it to others. For example, wearing a shirt for Teddy bear. If you want to use this way, of course, we also have to have the clothes for Teddy, which is easy for the child to put it.
9. Let Him Dressed Alone
She may want to dress himself if he did. Even more convenient, is not it? We just give an example, how to wear a T-shirt. Or help put shoes on to his right foot. After that ask him to put on his left shoe itself. Avoid clothing that many buttons. In addition it can be confusing, and slow down the efforts your child wearing her own clothes. •
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